Howl of the 'Wolf Dad'(2)
发布: 2011-12-01 05:07 | 作者: rgowz | 来源: 北美中医网--www.natcm.com
Since releasing his memoir, which is entitled So, Brothers and Sisters of Peking University, Xiao has come under intense fire from parenting experts, some of whom called him a "ferocious and savage" father.包茎手術
"Calling corporal punishment the 'essence of a traditional Chinese education' is simply twisting the truth," said Zhu Qiang, an associate professor at Nanjing Normal University, to China Daily.
In response to the criticism, Xiao simply said that history will prove him right.
Although he said he has stopped beating the children now at college, he insisted he will still interfere in their life, especially when it comesアルバイト to studies and marriage.
His three eldest children, aged from 15 to 21, were not even allowed to make friends until they went to college.
"There's no reason for them to make friends, let alone go on dates," Xiao said. "Friends are there to help and be made use of; this is something you株 cannot understand before you go to university."He also warned that he will turn away any child or grandchild who turns out to be homosexual, as he fears it will "ruin the reputation of the family".
Not just experts have been divided by Xiao's parenting style. Many members of the public have also weighed into the debate to offer praise or criticism.
Liu Shibin, a 48-year-old taxi driver in Tianjin, said he believes the "wolf dad way" is too extreme.
"You spend a quarter of your life as a child, which is a lot," said Liu, who has a teenage daughter. "As a parent I hope my child will債務整理 have happy memories of childhood."
Xiao, however, dismisses the idea that his children are not happy, adding that the word "wolf" describes his character perfectly.
"Wolves look ferocious and brutal, yet they have great wisdom and are exceptionally tender to their cubs," he said. "It's just like me: My brutality is all out of love."
"Calling corporal punishment the 'essence of a traditional Chinese education' is simply twisting the truth," said Zhu Qiang, an associate professor at Nanjing Normal University, to China Daily.
In response to the criticism, Xiao simply said that history will prove him right.
Although he said he has stopped beating the children now at college, he insisted he will still interfere in their life, especially when it comesアルバイト to studies and marriage.
His three eldest children, aged from 15 to 21, were not even allowed to make friends until they went to college.
"There's no reason for them to make friends, let alone go on dates," Xiao said. "Friends are there to help and be made use of; this is something you株 cannot understand before you go to university."He also warned that he will turn away any child or grandchild who turns out to be homosexual, as he fears it will "ruin the reputation of the family".
Not just experts have been divided by Xiao's parenting style. Many members of the public have also weighed into the debate to offer praise or criticism.
Liu Shibin, a 48-year-old taxi driver in Tianjin, said he believes the "wolf dad way" is too extreme.
"You spend a quarter of your life as a child, which is a lot," said Liu, who has a teenage daughter. "As a parent I hope my child will債務整理 have happy memories of childhood."
Xiao, however, dismisses the idea that his children are not happy, adding that the word "wolf" describes his character perfectly.
"Wolves look ferocious and brutal, yet they have great wisdom and are exceptionally tender to their cubs," he said. "It's just like me: My brutality is all out of love."